NEVER SAY NEVER
Just don’t. Take it from me.
When I like or don’t like something it’s usually such a strong and certain feeling. Of course I get moments of indecisiveness and uncertainty about various things all the time – don’t we all? Especially women? But when it comes to more serious things and events I need guidance on I always ask / follow my intuition. There’s no other way for me. Who else would know me better other than myself?
In the last few months I’ve decided to be a bit more flexible with life in general. To accept things my way if they flow to me and if the feeling is strictly negative then I simply won’t let them in. Does that make sense at all? Here’s an example to help you understand a little bit better. I’ve always said my entire life that I would never get a tattoo until I ended up getting two last month. It could be the fact that my partner’s cousin who was staying with us for a few days is a tattoo artist and it was just handy. Or maybe it was just the perfect time? I always have loved beautiful meaningful tattoos. Small ones. The design and wording on mine flowed to me perfectly too.
Without going in to any deep or personal situations, I’ll give you another simple example. I said I’ve always hated colour orange or anything that’s copper or even close to orange when it comes to clothing. For years. And then this jacket popped up online and it was love at first sight. So pretty with that Chloe Faye too don’t you think? This made me realise that us humans go through waves of feelings and tastes and preferences hugely depend on our emotions based on the situation at the time. Smells, colours, words, music… How many of us get a shock when we walk by someone wearing the same perfume / after shave our ex used to wear?
So here’s how I’m approaching things lately. Feel free to take any of this on if it helps:
“Don’t reject anything that comes my way. Even if I had strong beliefs about those things in the past. Beliefs are learnt and subconsciously inflicted over time, so it’s best to consult with my intuition first. Intuition is simply put how I feel about about a said situation and the answer will always be clear.”
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