Back to front or front to back – you decide. I’ve never done anything the conventional way. Not so much rebelling or to annoy anyone in particular, but I’ve never really resonated with any typical social tradition per se. Things like having a kid at “the right age” that is “acceptable” by society (I think I’ll talk about that in depth later), not conforming or fitting in to any specific social group or class… Choices I made. Choices that at times weren’t understood by people and maybe even myself, but they had to be made. Countless college courses to try to find out what I wanted to do after finishing school. Hobbies (read about some of them HERE) and even crazy haircuts back in the days that made me who I was / am. I often got told that I do things “backwards” and it often confused me. Is there a right way?
Isn’t it beautiful when you meet someone who sees the world like you do and shares all your values and just simply gets you? Almost nine years and counting and we still do things our own “strange” way. People simply don’t get us. Doing things “backwards” or unlike anyone else is actually liberating, although it takes a lot of work to simply allow ourselves to be who we want to be in life. Allow your weirdness to shine, celebrate it and simply DO YOU, remembering that not everyone will like you, but there will be plenty of people who will. Honesty, integrity and humbleness simply feel better for our big sensitive hearts.
And here’s how weird I am… The cardigan I’m wearing got me into this deep topic (I know!). It’s supposed to be worn with buttons on the back i.e back to front, and because I decided to wear it the opposite way, I remembered that I like doing things backwards.
OUTFIT DETAILS
SKIRT (£26) – HERE
Cardigan (£18) – HERE
Sunnies – CELINE
Bag – Arran Frances*
Shoes – old sock boots
Huge thanks to Arran Frances for supporting this post.
Laura Budd says
April 26, 2018 at 4:58 amI’m a back to front person too!
I love that skirt, totally going on my purchase list for Spring!
LAFOTKA says
April 26, 2018 at 6:03 amAw I’m glad I’m not alone haha! Love the skirt – and such a bargain! x
The Girl In The Tartan Scarf says
April 26, 2018 at 4:09 pmI think I’m a bit back to front myself…all the best people are! :p hahah! Love this post beaut and you look stunning as always 💗 xx
LAFOTKA says
April 26, 2018 at 9:56 pmAw hun! That’s why we’re pals haha!! I knew there was something about you I liked 😂 haha… and thank you! How cute are the pieces from pull and bear? X
Sheree says
April 30, 2018 at 10:32 amI’ve seen quite a few of these inter-changeable tops lately and I think it is super cute and amazing. You can really wear it in so many ways and there is no wrong way to wear it! Your outfit is so chic and I’m loving that bag as well!
xo Sheree
PoshClassyMom.com
Gina Diaz says
April 30, 2018 at 5:36 pmYou look so lovely as always babe! loving your bag and the outfit!!! I like myself wearing clothes in this way too, back to front 😉 or vice-versa.
xx. Gina
Darlene Anderson says
May 1, 2018 at 3:33 amyou always look so beautiful and fresh! I really admire your fashion style as well!
xxx
http://www.thenewgirl.me
Open Kloset says
May 1, 2018 at 7:12 amHey Darling:)
Hows you?
I understand you 100%, And I feel the same.
I love to travel for Example and I still don’t see myself to having a Kid, even tough that everyone around me has or will have soon.
I think we feel it how is the best for us.
The Cardigan and Skirt Gorgeous Together, Loved the Combination:)
Kisses Love
Karina
Samjah says
May 2, 2018 at 3:53 amGreat message and great style!! You’re so unconventional and I dig it! You have your own style about you and that’s why I adore your blog!
Sweet as Fiction says
May 3, 2018 at 2:37 pmThis is such a lovely combo. I would totally rock this. And also adore that bag of yours <3
Sweet as Fiction xx
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Samantha Mariko says
May 6, 2018 at 12:17 pmI’d love to see this cardigan worn “backwards” too haha! I really like how you styled it and i love the slouchy fit – my favorite! It definitely feels good to rebel once in a while and just do things your way.
xo Samantha
Eva says
May 10, 2018 at 9:04 amPretty look and like how you wearing the cardigan. The bad is fantastic love the bracelet handle details. I’m think is better to do what we feel, sometimes the choices are very important .
Xx
Eva
http://www.themermaidfashion.com
Kirsten Wendlandt says
May 11, 2018 at 4:01 pmUmm I totally love that skirt! The button detailing is so perfect. Need to add something like this to my wardrobe stat!
xox Kirsten // http://www.kirstenwendlandt.com